Relationship Status and Bias
How Our Relationship Status Influences Our Perceptions and Behaviors
Our relationship status, whether single or coupled up, has a significant impact on the way we view the world and interact with others. Research has shown that people tend to believe that their own relationship status is superior, regardless of their actual level of happiness. This bias can lead to judgment and even pity towards those who make different choices.
The Influence of Relationship Status on Bias
Studies have found that people who are in stable relationships are more likely to idealize their own way of life and judge those who are single or in different types of relationships. This bias extends beyond romantic relationships to other areas of life, such as work and politics. For example, people in committed relationships may be more likely to vote for political candidates who are also in committed relationships, and they may be more likely to view job candidates who are in committed relationships as being more responsible and reliable.
The Role of Happiness and Stability
Interestingly, the bias towards our own relationship status remains true regardless of our personal level of happiness. Even if we are unhappy in our current relationship, we may still believe that our way of life is better than others. Additionally, the more stable we perceive our relationship status to be, the more likely we are to idealize it and judge others who make different choices.
The Impact on Social Interactions
This bias can have a significant impact on our social interactions. Rather than simply acknowledging that different relationship statuses have different benefits and drawbacks, we often become evangelists for our own lifestyles. We may try to convince our single friends that they should be in a relationship, or we may pity our coupled-up friends for giving up their freedom. This can lead to misunderstandings and conflict, as people may feel that their choices are being criticized or dismissed.
The Legal Implications
It is important to note that discriminating against someone based on their relationship status is against the law. Employers cannot make hiring decisions based on whether or not someone is married or in a relationship. Additionally, it is illegal to deny someone housing or other services based on their relationship status.
Overcoming Bias
Recognizing our own biases is the first step towards overcoming them. Once we are aware of our tendency to judge others based on their relationship status, we can make a conscious effort to be more open-minded and accepting. We can also challenge our own assumptions about what constitutes a “good” or “bad” relationship.
Conclusion
Our relationship status is a complex and multifaceted aspect of our identity. It can influence our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors in a variety of ways. By understanding the biases that can arise from our relationship status, we can work to overcome them and create more inclusive and understanding communities.